Sometimes. To some, this is acceptable. But the bad news is that "sometimes" is worse than "always." Good news bad news. Good news is you don't have MFS yet.
Bad news, this is the worst place you can be. Most people transform their lives out of desperation or inspiration. Unfortunately, you're stuck in the middle. You don't need to wait for it to get bad before it gets better.
You can start NOW. I have a "MFS Intervention Kit" I can send you right now. Where should I send it?
A mom's life is never easy but it should always be worth it.