This Week's Giveaway: The "Leslie" Pack!

Sep 17 2011

There's no doubt we live in a society of casual sex. "Hooking up" is considered part of the dating scene. How sad!! If you have kids (and I'm taking it that you do, since you're on my website), then you are probably concerned about this phenomenon and want to do everything in your power to help your kids stay pure.

As usual, we're going against the grain. Most people will advise to teach kids to practice "safe sex" but I have found that true safety is found only within the boundaries that God sets for us. But how do we teach purity to our children without sounding like an old fart whose sex life is about as interesting as an economics textbook?

Thank the Lord for Leslie Ludy! Leslie and her husband, Eric, have an entire ministry toward instilling Godly values in teens, with a special emphasis on teaching true love. I got on the phone with Leslie the other day to get the "deets" on teaching purity. And, boy, oh, boy...did she ever fill me in! Leslie Ludy rocks! Listen to the interview and leave a comment with the best tip you have on teaching purity to your kids, and you'll be entered to win a "Leslie" pack--not one, but TWO of her rockin' books!

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Talk About It!

moadibp2 says

I appreciated the idea of practicing honoring your spouse by honoring your family members. I have found that I didn't know where to begin, when talking to my children. The when hasn't really been a question, as I to feel that you need to start young and in gradual steps to the issue. Some people feel that you should just sit them down, discuss the whole thing, and occasionally bring it back up at times. I feel that it leaves the child overwhelmed, and at some point it goes right over their heads. Talk to them early and gradually. Just figure out where to begin. JC

10/06/2011 at 06:14 pm

ericadc says

I too am practicing honoring my family members. We are currently working through a rough patch because of dishonor. We have six children (3 of which are teens). I think because I was a young parent myself, I found it easier to talk to my children about sex, sexuality, and feelings. I am also a teacher and believe in the power of books. I have a lot of books that explain a lot when no one wants to listen to me.

10/10/2011 at 04:09 am

St. Mom says

What a great interview! Just like Leslie said, be truthful,be honest,just be real with your kids. Parents are their kids best teachers, that's God's plan. The sex at 13 generation needs a PG-13 rating, which stands for parental guidance. Be available to your kids,listen and be strong.Prayer Guidance ( PG for 13 years old) is also a must! Let God's spirit dwell in you!

10/13/2011 at 04:01 pm

Bren77 says

I don't think enough parents talk about their desires for their children's purity, because it can feel awkward. Kids WANT to know what their parents really feel about different situations, and this is the topic where communication needs to be open, honest, AND FREQUENT!

My sweet mom, every time we went on dates as young adults, she would remind us, 'you know how dad and I feel about pre-marital sex!' It was awkward for us (and probably her) but she wasn't afraid to do it anyway -- and for that I am forever grateful!

10/13/2011 at 05:46 pm

WiffytoJ says

The best advice I have is to teach your children how to really love God. Not just I believe in Him and am glad I have fire insurance but really to grasp the fact that Jesus died for ME! Not to be too simplistic but if they love God more than anything else in their life, then it will be easier to honor Him with their bodies. I would love to win these books as I have 5 kids from 8-15 and this would be awesome help!! Thanks!

10/13/2011 at 06:02 pm

kali says

Looks great- thanks for sharing Hannah!

10/13/2011 at 06:41 pm

cpark8392 says

We are knocking on this door right now on when to give the FULL speech to our daughter. This would be an awesome addition to the Birds and the Bees conversation!!!!

Ok...my tip? Start early and teach modesty! Teach them to love and respect their bodies so that when it comes to sex…they have it engrained already to love and respect themselves!!!!!!

10/13/2011 at 06:47 pm

edeenik says

Be open, transparent, honest, and straightforward - your teen is almost an adult, treat them as such. Don't talk AT them, share a conversation with encouragement and talk about your own struggles/issues. Look for the moment with TV shows, immodest dressers, whatever comes your way - if you're spending time with your children, there will be teachable moments (and start looking EARLY - before hormones cloud their judgement)!

10/13/2011 at 07:28 pm

Hannah says

You mamas are some WISE WOMEN! Thank you so much for these comments. I'm so proud of all of you for pouring your heart and soul into parenting!!!!

10/15/2011 at 07:10 pm

mom2rbdl says

The whole idea of talking to my children about this gives me stomach cramps, but it.must.be.done. My mom never said the word s-e-x to me and I began dating and entered marriage woefully unprepared. I will NOT let that happen to my kids. I'm so glad there are resources out there to helps moms like me find a starting point, and some good information to share with my children.

10/19/2011 at 07:43 pm

Hannah says

Nothing to get stomach cramps over, mama! Remember, you want them to KNOW that sex is great...as long as it is in God's plans. Be open. Be honest. And don't tip-toe around anything.

10/22/2011 at 04:21 pm

tarajanak says

I really feel if we teach them that there is no other option, then that is all they will believe (in their hearts). Also, watch who they hang out with. Peer pressure is so tough....

11/05/2011 at 10:07 pm