The Family Rules of Fine Dining
Aug 06 2010
Rule #1. Don't
Okay, I'm kidding. But in all seriousness (if that's even possible for me), we decided to go on the ultimate adventure for any family with a lot of kids. We took them all to a fancy restaurant.
And we survived.
We went to a Thai restaurant here in Cape Cod. I considered it "research." I was willing to face the fire and take one for my fellow mom, to establish a code among us--those few who are willing to darken the doors of fancy restaurants with their children in tow. So, here they are--the family rules of fancy restaurants.
Rule #1: Don't ever ask for a kid's menu.
Yes, I stand red-faced, admitting to the world that I asked if the restaurant had a kid's menu. It was merely a request, mind you, but the servers laughed under their breath when I mentioned the idea. However, I think it is important that a restaurant welcomes ALL ages, so you should always ask if they have any recommendations for children.
Rule #2: Accept only Superior Behavior.
Here are my thoughts on kids and fancy establishments. First, your kids should set a standard of excellence. They should be disciplined and well-behaved (even if you have to strike the fear of God in them to do so--jk). This doesn't just happen once in a while. this happens with daily discipline. So, if your kids have not been disciplined to behave properly, don't even attempt a fancy establishment. Start in the home first.
Rule #3: Expect only Superior Service.
As you know, I'm big on kids modeling good behavior. Because of this, I also am big on employees of establishments treating them as valuable customers. If they cannot treat my kids with respect and supply good service, then they aren't worthy of our patronage. Fortunately, this restaurant exceeded expectations. (phew!).
Rule #4: Communicate Expectations.
Before we went out, I discussed with the kids what I expected out of them at the restaurant. I also made sure I communicated exactly why I expected this. As Christians, when we go out, people should see something different about us. They should see joy, love, respect, and excellent behavior. This is also a way to be a blessing to others.
Rule #5: Lighten Up.
As much as we preach it and teach it, sometimes it doesn't just happen. Roll with it, Mama. Check out this picture of Korben. If you'll notice in the background, Kyler was just about to wipe his face with his shirt. Hey, it happens. It's okay. Don't quit trying, gently (or not so gently) nudging them forward to meet certain standards.
Rule #6: Have Fun.
Dining with a family should be fun. And fancy restaurants do not mean that you need to put on a somber appearance and talk in hushed tones. Go ahead, laugh! It will do that table next to you a whole heap of good to hear a family having a fun time together. LInger, talk, and make it worth the purchase. You'll be creating wonderful memories!
So, tell me about your restaurant adventures. I would love to hear about them!
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